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Mindfulness in Minutes: You Don’t Need a Permission Slip

 The Fear Spiral Is Not a Strategy, It’s a Symptom


Let’s be honest: Fear isn’t just a feeling…it’s a full-blown productivity killer dressed up as caution. For female founders and solopreneurs doing all the things, fear doesn’t always show up as panic. Sometimes it looks like procrastination, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or pausing your launch because some girl from your college days might judge your Instagram caption.


And the worst part? You might be subconsciously waiting for someone, anyone, to give you a green light to go for it.


But here’s the truth: You’re the one holding the damn pen. 

Write your own permission slip.

Animated characters listen to a man holding paper. Text reads: "There's no permission slip for what we're doing." Classroom setting.

Fear Is F*cking With You More Than You Think


If you’ve ever:

  • Waited to share your offer because it “wasn’t ready”

  • Stalled your launch because you were unsure what “they” would think

  • Silently hoped for someone else to validate your next step


Then welcome to the Fear Spiral, population: you and every entrepreneur ever.


You don’t need outside approval. You don’t need the “right time.” You need a mindset reset, and maybe a little tough love from someone who’s been there.



Reality Inventory: The Personal Permission Slip


Take 5 minutes for a mindset reset:


  1. The Gatekeepers 

    Who are you silently waiting on to validate your next move? (Your old boss? Your best friend? A social media stranger?)


  2. The Audit 

    What 3 things are you putting off right now? Are you waiting for proof, praise, or permission?


  3. The Hard Truth 

    What’s the worst-case scenario if you stop waiting and start? What’s the best-case you’re missing out on?


Final Thoughts: Fear Doesn’t Get a Vote


You’re not “too early,” “too small,” or “too much.” You’re ready, even if you’re scared. Because fear might linger, but it doesn’t get to make your decisions. You do.


So consider this your permission slip to move forward: late, messy, uncertain… but in motion.


You’re courageous. You’re capable. You’re strong. 

And YES, actually… You don’t need anyone’s approval to begin.


Permission slip with "Built On Yes" in purple, black text stating permission for "Doing the d*mn thing," on a beige background.

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